It’s funnier that the servant (low status) be smarter than the king (high status). It’s playing with expectations and surprise. (Though it turns out, having someone so incompetent in such a position of power isn’t that funny.) But status can move around. It shifts.
A project manager might make you feel like a 2 (out of 10), then commiserating with a friend can bump you up to a 9. You could feel like an 8 going into a meeting, see that the whole C-suite is there for some reason and drop to a 3.
So here’s the challenge: feel like a 10. As often as you can. Play a confident character. Not a 9. 9’s are still competing for status and will try and put others down to build themselves up. A 10 isn’t battling for status. They have it. They’re secure in themselves. They are enough. So enough, they’re willing to help others who are still struggling with status.
You may not always feel like it, but just know, you are a 10.
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This series was inspired by people asking me “How do I keep doing improv?” after a corporate improv workshop. There are, of course, improv classes, more workshops, team building exercises you can do with your group, but these games are specifically ones you can do on your own to practice “Yes and” and get into a state of play.