The Toronto Blue Jays lost the 2025 World Series. But did they? Yes. But did they, really? Unfortunately, yes. Based on the numbers.
But also based on the numbers, I bet there were more people cheering for the Jays than for the Dodgers. Sure, that’s just opinion without any evidence, but that’s all the rage right now, so I’ll just move forward as though that’s fact. I think it’s because the Blue Jays were the better “team.”
There’s a research study that got kids to take a test, with one half of the kids being celebrated for correct answers, the others were celebrate for their effort. They were given a second test, much harder than the first. The kids who were praised for success struggled more and gave up quicker. The kids who were praised for effort, didn’t give up and stuck with the harder test longer.
My point is, the games the Dodgers were losing, they looked all sullen and put off by the fact that they weren’t just automatically winning. The games the Jays were losing, they still kept each other’s spirits high. There was still a wanting to keep trying, a joy of being together, and enjoyment of being the moment.
The Jays love baseball and being a team. The Dodgers love winning.
In improv, winning is about supporting each other. “Yes, and” is an agreement to think collaboratively, and build on each other’s ideas. It’s not about one person’s ego, but what’s best for team as a whole.
In sports, it’s taught that winning is the only measurement of success. In life, I like to think we can all learn from the Jays.
The Dodgers won the World Series. The Jays won the hearts of everyone who watches baseball. They clearly love the game and love each other. Losing sucks. But getting to play a game for a living, with your friends, with the world cheering you on sounds like winning to me.
“A gold medal is a wonderful thing. But if you’re not enough without it, you’ll never be enough with it.”
– John Candy’s character in Cool Runnings