How Fortune 500 companies use improv to build their leadership skills.

PART 2: Improv helps you care about others.

In Part 1, we talked about the importance of the ability to make decisions. Now we’re talking about which decisions to make. And ideally, they’re decisions that will help the team you’re leading.

Imagine you’re on stage with someone. And they start the scene by saying, “Well, I hope you’re happy now.” In Part 1 we talked about all the decisions that need to be made to help build the world out of imagination. What did you do? Who would ask you that? What’s the context? Etc. All decisions you could make by going in your head and rummaging around for answers.

Now let’s shift outside ourselves and focus on them. How did they say it? Annoyed? Angry? Almost laughing? How are they looking at you? How close/far are they standing? What do they want from you? Like is it funnier TO THEM if you say that you are happy now?

In other words, improv teaches you to care about your scene partner(s). In real life, you can think of your “scene partner” as anyone you’re having an interaction with. Be present with them. What are they feeling? What do they want out of this conversation?

Humans tend to think other people think like they do. And often get frustrated when they don’t. But with improv, you quickly learn to be open to different ways of thinking, and even more important, appreciate different ways of thinking. So in a leadership position, you learn it isn’t about teaching your staff to be more like you, or that you’re the only one who knows how to do it “right,” but appreciating people for who they are, and what they can bring to the table.

In other words, you learn to let go. Leading isn’t about control. At first, out of fear, people often try to steer conversations/situations to where they want it to go, or to where they think it should go. But it’s hard to control others, and make them say or do everything you want. It’s frustrating. So with improv, you give up control, and the next thing you know, you’re sharing an experience where the collective ideas are way better than your individual ones would’ve been.

In conclusion, if you want to care more about others, a key leadership skill, you should definitely try improv.

100 Ways to Play at Work #21: Move Differently

Instead of slowly getting up, jump out of your chair. Walk with your arms swinging fully. Bounce with each step. Hold your head high. Moving your body differently will make you think and feel differently.

I sometimes walk around the house like Robocop, and when I change directions, I turn my head first, then upper body, then legs. Does it look cool? Depends who you ask. Does is feel cool? Yes.

You don’t need to go full dance number, for some of us just getting up from our chairs more often is different enough.

Now get moving!  

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This series was inspired by people asking me “How do I keep doing improv?” after a corporate improv workshop. There are, of course, improv classes, more workshops, team building exercises you can do with your group, but these games are specifically ones you can do on your own to practice “Yes and” and get into a state of play.

The 10 “Z's" of Choosing the Best Team Building Activities

As we all know, any list that uses all the same letters is clearly more thought out, and not just a gimmick. It’s like when common sayings rhyme, they’re just better. And this list should be considered the most definitive, based on Scrabble scores.

Here are the 10 “Z’s” you need to make sure you’re choosing the perfect team building activity for your staff/executives/board members/friends and family.

Zeal

It’s gotta be an activity people want to do with great energy and enthusiasm.

Zen

It’s gotta be something that connects them to their senses and intuition.  

Zone

It’s gotta get them in the zone. Like, locked in.

Zig-zag

Hmmm, okay, yeah, it’s gotta help them be able to pivot their thinking in the opposite direction, and then back again.

Zestful

Um, did I mention it’s gotta be something people do with great energy and enthusiasm?

Zoo

It’s gotta have some level of confusion and disorder. And people behaving like animals.

Zombie

It’s gotta break them out of their regular behaviour patterns.

Zarf

That thing that goes over a coffee cup to keep you from burning your hands. So, like, the activity should help your team protect each other from… heat and stuff.

Zoomies?

It’s gotta get them running around like dogs that need to get rid of some excess energy, because they’ve been sitting in front of the computer all day.

Zip-Zap-Zop

It’s gotta be an improv game. It’s fun. You should try improv.

Wondering which team building activity does it all?! Including the last one, which is specific to improv? It’s improv!

Book your improv workshop today and reach the zenith of team building activities!